The story of benjamin begin here...

Everything happen so fast...

i was expecting for benjamin to come to my world, and now, here he is..

at time, i was so uncertain about what's going to happen.. how will benji look like... will he be healthy. bla bla bla.. and now... here he is, sleeping beside me...

on the 28 jan 2010, i slept early... i wanna be sure that i have enough sleep so that benji will see her pretty & fresh look mama when he come to this world..

29 Dec 2010, Alvin and I reach hospital at around 530am. After the admission, we proceed to the ward. measure blood pressure, shaving & changing clothes... I absolutely feel relief when the nurse said I can waive the enema because of the low lying placenta!! Finally, the placenta previa has done 1 good thing for me!! hahhaha..

and then they push me to the operation room... alvin is not allow to come in with me.. i see the fear from his expression. He definitely scare that something will happen to me.. and gladly, after short while, i saw my lovely gynae.. Dr. Lim.. He is definitely the best gynae I have ever met so far!! He is caring, patience and super intelligent! With the presence of the witness and nurses help, the anesthetist start doing the epidural for me.. I have to say, it wasn't painful.. but uncomfortable either..

after a while, the nurses get alvin into the operation room. Dr Lim cut my belly within minute... I din realize that the operation has began until I saw alvin expression change in no time.. And It was absolutely fast.. my operation started around 720am.. and I hear benjamin's cry at 738am! How could I don love Dr. Lim?? according to alvin, he is very steady and was chit chating with the nurses and anesthetist during the operation too.. and I swear, I did not hear the "king king qang qang" sound... It was purely doctor talking only..

My tears drop when the nurse bring benjamin to me.. he is so lovely... and healthy.. and chubby cheek... I will not forget the moment.. I feel my life complete when i kissed him on his cheek... Then Alvin left the operation with the nurse for Benjamin's cleaning and admission..

Without alvin and Benjamin beside me, I admitted that I started to fear and I think i feel the pain.. muahhahha... I know, i know.. this could be my imagination.. but it is ok.. it is all worth it.. I have Benjamin now.. (^.^)

I have to say it again, Dr Lim is extremely an experience doctor.. the operation completed by 810am.. (or earlier??) don ask me how he do it. He did it... and there is no excessive blood lost as expected! I have no regret that I have to spend more for delivering in Singapore!!! He gave me lots lots of courage and professional consultation throughout my pregnancy..

我真的要生孩子了。。

说了一个月， 又一个月。。。

我是真的要生了。。。 终于。。。

现在我的肚子真的很大个！！很辛苦～～～

我很不能想象， 那些肥胖的人。。 挺着那么一大粒的肚皮， 难道他们都不会辛苦吗？ 都不想减肥吗？

腰酸背痛 （痛苦， 也痛哭。。。）

晚上睡觉， 不能平躺， 会窒息。。。 -.- 会呼吸困难啦～～

侧躺， 也因为肚子太大， 压到我得左脚， 脚痛。。。

躺下就很难起身， 像一只大水牛。。。

吃东西，不可以吃太饱， 肚子会痛。。

很容易累， 也很容易想睡觉。。。

肚子的裂痕， 像火车路一样， 一列一列。。 一排一排。。

明天， 就是我大着肚子的最后一天了！

我想， 我会怀念这些日子的。。 不过， 我现在比较期待看到我儿子的诞生！！

(^o^)

我有40寸"小蛮腰“

上个星期， 我的小蛮腰是39寸。。 -.-||

整个星期， 我的肚皮都很痒。。 涂了很多很多 anti-stretch mark cream 都没
办法完全止痒。。

今天， 突然心血来潮， 想说， 可能肚子有39.5寸了吧。。。

-.-||| 40 寸！！！

很难跟别人说我的腰是小蛮腰。。 （其实， 一直都没有过小蛮腰...)

不过， 这真的解释了， 为什么--- 肚皮很痒。。。

宝贝， 你可以长大， 不过， 老娘求求你， 乖乖待在肚子里就好。。 别急着出
来。。。

Now only I realized...

I have been complaining about backache and stomachache for the past 2 weeks...

I thought backache was due to bad sleep, too tired and stress (I have been worrying a lot 有的没的 recently..)

stomachache could probably due to stress and non consistent meal... (even though I have been munching between the meal time), or could it be caused by the supplements that I have been taking??

In fact, I had a very bad one last night.. i had the supplements at 11pm, and couldn't sleep until 12am.. wake up at 2am still feeling the stomach 鼓鼓的, 涨涨的.. went to the toilet but it doesn't help much. I manage to sleep at 3am after a glass of milo with plenty plenty crackers.. I thought it was due to gastric pain (I forgot that i don have gastric -.-)

After talking to ai may today.. I finally understand that those were the sign of contraction pain!!!!

Gosh! I should have ask the gynae last week.. now i am even more kan jiong.. does it mean that benjamin is coming out anytime? Luckily benjamin din decide to come out last night, when i was in JB! phew~~~

it's only week 36 now.. benjamin lee, u better be good boy and stay in mummy's belly for another 2 week.. don give me a heart attack.. be good boy, promise??

Argghh.. backache again....

Count down time...

There is nothing much that i can do already...

Everyday wake up and count down only..

I used to count down to christmas day in Dec...

Now I wish I can spread my focus to Christmas day.. which I cant.... -.-

I am getting more like a pig now. eat, sleep shit...eat sleep shit... even working days i will rather to take a short nap than to take my lunch...

hope that my condition will get better soon...

Meantime, pray hard hard that benjamin will guai guai stay in my belly until end Dec!!

Stress...........

I have no confident to handle the stress any further!!

Coming to the last month can be so miserable.. This is so unlike what the pre / post natal book has described.. Rest and relax to get prepare for the delivery moment... =.=||

The story began like this......

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My dearly uncle told me that once I feel like "shitting", that's it! That's the TIME!! Gosh! now i have come to the stage that i thought i am delivering; whenever i feel like "shitting"!!!

Last night i got stomachache.. it was so painful that i have never experience before... I swear at that moment i was about to rush to the hospital! shit! it was 1030pm! i really don want to go into the hospital as emergency case.. Then my hospitalization bill will increase from S$7k to S$17k!!! (according to me experienced uncle again)

Luckily it was just gas in my stomach.. the hub was saying that i did not take proper meal.. hell him! i don know what is consider "proper meal" to him!! beer during dinner time & supper at 11pm? F***! i have no idea how he can judge me like that while he took totally unhealthy meal!

PLUS, doctor says i got healthy weight gain! and my baby is growing healthy in my expanding belly........

It is getting nearer to the day.. Honestly I never thought that i will come across so much stress thinking of benji's health during/after delivery.. I know i gotto be positive thinking.. But I just cannot help myself from thinking "what if...." !!

I need help!

I need consultation!

Am I leading myself to port natal depression?? or my depression has already started??

It's week 34!

Congrats my darling... you are now in week 34 already... still safe and sound in my tummy..

i am glad that you are growing as a strong boy..

Doctor Lim said you weight 2.1kg.. my boy.. i am so proud of you.. Despite squeezing within the confine space in there, yet you manage to grow well..

i was a bit worry that you will be under weight/size.. but you are doing extremely well!! Thank to you, i am suffering from belly expansion.. -.- the red bumps are not only itchy, but also painful~~~ not to mention that it "developing" right at the CENTER of my belly...

I have no idea how my belly will looks like after giving birth.. but it is certainly worthy.. for my darling Benjamin...

your birthday will be after Christmas.. unfortunately u cannot celebrate Christmas with us this year... but for sure, you will have your 1st new year count down together with daddy and mummy! till then, pls bear with mummy nagging.. and keep staying in my tummy until late December (^.^)

2010 Christmas is near!!

2010 Christmas is getting so close...

I went for window shopping at Orchard during my last appointment at Mount E.

So excited to see the Christmas tree nicely decorated at Takashimaya!!



And I have received my early Christmas present from my sweet mei mei, esther!!

It is my favorite La Sourse set from Crabtree & Evelyn~~~~

Thanks mei mei~~ 3 jie will buy you a nice gift too!!!

我的儿子 - 打横来的

现在我终于知道是什麽感觉了。。

广东话说 : 打横来的 --- 蛮不讲理的。。。。

这， 就是我的儿子。。

昨天我去看医生。。 医生说， 因为胎盘的位置占去宝宝的空位， 宝宝不能随心
所欲地转动。。

所以， 他现在是打横的。。

头，在我的右边， 脚在左边。。

我在想， 是不是， 宝宝越大， 那我的肚皮就越向横发展？

有点不可思议。。

很难理解。。。

可是， 可以肯定的是， 我， 遇到对手了。。。 讲道理的我， 和打横的儿
子。。 谁会赢呢？

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Blessed day!

Today is a day that worth celebration.

Early in the morning i receive good news from one of the best friend... (^.^)

today is benji's 32 weeks~~~~ so called... initial stable stage reached!! (^-^) doctor says most babies can survive after 32 weeks.. but may need to stay in the hospital... it doesnt matter... my strong benji can stay in my tummy still.....

my darling hubby successfully set up the baby cot for his lovely son... (^_^)

i got all benji's clothes washed & folded nicely.... but..... yet to get him a wardrobe to keep his clothes.. hehhe... mission incomplete.... but alvin promised that he will get the wardrobe by next weekend..

I HAVE FINALLY COMPLETE MY SHOPPING LIST!!! big to small items! i have got it all!!! i am so happy!!!!!!!!! (^o^)

last but not the least, i have manage to pack my "emergency bag"!! hahahha... (i hope anyone can tell me the better name for "emergency bag"..) if time comes that i have to give birth anytime, alvin just need to grab the bag and bring to the hospital... items for myself and benji are all ready inside the bag~~~

PROUD OF MYSELF~~~~

finally...... i can declare that i am ready to give birth!! despite the benji's passport & maid matters...

Passport --- if benji is born in Singapore, we will need to get his passport ready before we can bring him back to JB for confinememt.. that will take more than 1 week... which means, i will need to stay in Sg *maybe without the confinement lady...

maid --- we are trying to get a maid to take care of benji after my maternity leave... well.. this is still to far to think... it would not be a problem if i am extending my maternity leave... hehhe.. so... not too worry about it...

I AM SO HAPPY TODAY~~~~~ CAN I DECLARE MYSELF WONDERFUL MUMMY??

但愿我还是那个宝贝女儿。。

爸爸妈妈和妹妹上个星期来新加坡看我。。

很久都没有和家人相处了。。 很想家。。 很怀念在家的日子。。

三天两夜， 很快地就过去了。。 老实说， 很希望可以一直和家人在一起。。

有时自己也不明白， 为什麽当初要离开家里， 来到新加坡过生活。。

或许， 没有当初的离开， 也就没有现在的珍惜吧。。

现在想起他们回家的那一刻， 眼眶也会湿湿地。。 是荷尔蒙在作怪吗？？

父母回家了。。 世界又好像变得很孤单了。。

想很多。。 不知是因为我寂寞， 还是， 我自己也要成为人母了。。

想起我以前还是小女孩的时候， 我是爸爸妈妈的掌上明珠。。

为什么一眨眼， 我变成了老女人了。。 很悲哀呢！！ 我渴望一直一直是妈妈的宝贝女儿。。

我喜欢向爸爸妈妈撒娇， 我习惯爸爸妈妈疼我， 宠我， 爱我。。

好像， 我要成为妈妈了， 我就没那个权利了。。

自己要成为妈妈了。。 我才了解， 父母疼孩子， 真的可以是那么毫无条件的。。

很感恩， 我有这样的父母， 毫无保留地为我们付出。。 让我们在有爱的环境下成长。。

我爱您们。。 感谢您们。。

很肉麻。。 不过， 是很真实的。。

Gynae appointments...

My life is all about gynae appointments....

I have decided to deliver in Sg hospital... However, just in case my son prefer Dr. Ding from Puteri Hospital in JB... I cannot stop the gynae appointment at both JB & Singapore hospital....

I am now in 30-31 weeks of pregnancy.. which means, i am expected to see the gyane every 2 weeks. since i am going to 2 hospital.... I am seeing gynae every week!!! Stress sia...

I visited to JB doctor last weekend, he said Benjamin weight 1.7kg (which i was shock to believe him)... Singapore gynae however, confirmed that he weight only 1.5-1.6kg during my visit this thursday~~~ which is just nice the bb's weight.... Hm~~~~~~ @.@||

no matter how, i am glad that i have got almost everything ready for baby.. except, alvin to set up the baby cot, and i need to get the bb's clothes washed and arrange it nicely in the wardrobe...

i don have much time left... just pray hard that benjamin stays in my stomach until i settle all these things.. =)

28 weeks

I took half day to see gynae in Mount Elizaberth on Friday..

Benjamin is a week 28 by now..

Doctor Lim did the ultrascan and says that he is 902g and he is at size of week 26. Initially i was a bit worry that he is a bit undersize..

then doctor lim measure his head again.. according to the head diameter & circumference, he is at size of week 27 + 2 days..

"does it mean that my son got big head and small body??" goodness, I cannot imagine I said that to the gynae.. what kind of mother that will make fun of her own son?? -.-!!

Well, the gyane is so kind.. "normally petite mum will have small size baby".. he said.. =)

doctor lim show me the placenta again.. and my darling is positioning himself so well, by taking the placenta as his pillow.. what a boy!

I discovered that the consultation fee varies by time.. The short & long consultation charges is S$70 & S$110 respectively (excluding GST!!). luckily i have listed down my question.. and I manage to cut down the consultation fee this time!! so glad!! ;)

Howover, I should get prepared to save really A LOT OF MONEY for cesarean in singapore... just in case..

benjamin, not to worry about that.. your father will settle for you (^-^).. you just need stay inside mummy's tummy.. and get enough nutriens for yourself..

My baby bag!!

Hurray!! My Kate Spade baby bag has arrived!!!

I bought a baby bag from reebonz online shopping last Friday...

expecting them to deliver the bag within this week..

Unbelievable!! They have send the bag in a nice large box with gold ribbon!!

I feel so pampered receiving the gift!!

Jia Yu helps in car washing

I go back to work on Monday morning and see this...

My little darling Jia Yu (Huey Chi's daughter = my cousin) is helping in car wash...

So sweet of her!

Henderson Waves Bridge

I have been telling Alvin that there is a pedestrian bridge in
Singapore that is famous in it's architectural outlook.

He doesn't believe me.

He says he been in Singapore for so long, and he knows Singapore better
than me.

and i wanna prove him wrong!!! =D

I wanna go there one time.. at least 1 time.

Knowing my husband, I have to provide him all the information so that he
knows how to bring me there... (or i should say, no excuse not to bring
me.. hehe..)

Please click on the link
http://www.holidays-in-singapore.com/henderson-waves.html

Tak Boleh Tahan!!!

I thought i can hold my frustration....

Hold it... hold it.... hang on.... hang on.....

Grrhhh!!!!!!!!!!

I cannot tahan liao!!!

I cannot believe there are such human being living in this society...
Kanasai!

Fresh graduate, called (should I rephrase it to "announced") himself as
"Dean List"

Asked for seat for his gf in the company annual dinner, whereby the rest
of the director didn't even bring spouse!

Act like the company management when he is just a junior manager.

Tattle around that he was being winkled.. But in fact, he was so "pure"
to misunderstand what others try to tell him!

Grrrhhhh... I know I know.. it is bad to gossip about people like that....

But I really tak boleh tahan liao!!!!!!!!

Please forgive me.......

Universal Studio

We went to Universal Studio during Raya long weekend.. That was before I get to know about the Placenta previa.. I walked a lot.. happily enjoying the trip...

=p

Tough Decision

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2nd opinion on Placenta Previa

I went to Singapore Mount Elizabeth Hospital to seek for 2nd opinion this afternoon.

The doctor says the same... placenta previa

There kills my hope for natural birth...

"It is ok. Many women that have placenta previa do not bleed until baby delivery". The doctor says.

"However, you HAVE to go for cesarean because the uterus is "blocked" and there is no chance for you to give birth naturally."

and doctor advised to go to the fully equipped hospital as there are risk to the mummy and baby..

The placenta previa is a case of "accident" that the embryo did not stick on to the right position, but drop down to a lower part.

There is nothing much that i can do, besides eating more red meat.. because likely i will more severe blood lose when giving birth.

Bed rest wouldn't help as the placenta is fixed into position already. It is certainly not because I walk too much.

But, should any bleeding happens, lying on the bed is to help to stop bleeding (only if it does help).

And, if severe bleeding occur before the mature time, then i will have to stay in the hospital until doctor decide the best time for cesarean.

Doctor is confident, that if the baby is 32 weeks old, almost all the baby can survived..

If everything goes on smoothly (i.e. no bleeding), then doctor will normally operate and bring the baby to the world 14-21 days earlier. Hence, my benji will be a December boy instead of January boy..

I should consider to give birth in Singapore instead.

Bad news from new Gynae

It is ok.. i keep telling myself.. Everything is going to be alright &
just fine..

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Alvin & I went to the specialist for check up yesterday.. planning to
change a proper hospital to deliver benji...

Gynae scan my tummy and gave the ''surprising" (or rather scaring) WOW..

Not a very good news from the gynae--- the placenta position is too
low, might lead to risk of miscarriage if i don handle it well.

Rest more, don take heavy items, no sex, he says

my mind is empty..

Should any bleeding happens, must go to see doctor immediately... he
continues,

If the bleeding is serious, then he has no choice but to scarifies the
baby.

Take good care of it, and we will do cesarean for you when the baby is
mature. There is almost NO Chance for you to go for natural birth.

There is nothing much that can be done, it's week 26 already.

Just.. rest well

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Benji, you have been doing well with mummy till so far.

Don give up.

Mummy will bring you come to the world safely. Don worry.

u just eat (absorb) well, rest well, and play well inside the protection
zone.

Don bother to come out so early, you little curious kid...

Mummy will tell you when it is right time to come to the world..

There is many to explore.. but not your time, yet....

We must be strong to overcome this together.. you, me & daddy

Benji, we love you.

Be strong..

Shopping List for Benji..

I am not sure if every mom does this..

Have I been thinking too much to plan ahead? Nvm nvm.. I think as a responsible parents, it is my duty to do proper planning for my darling benji... =)

No sure what alvin will do for him thou... as he always claim like to say "benji 乖， 爸爸疼你， 爸爸会保护你。。" blah blah blah....

Well, if alvin is willing to pay for all the items in the shopping list below... i will believe that what he said to benji was truth.... ^.^

I used the whole night yesterday to come out with the list.. Though is not so finalized yet... but I am pretty proud of myself... haha..

Thanks to Charmaine, Ai May & Lynn for the advice...

Please help me to look see look see.. if i have to add anything in... and what is the recommended brand / design... Tolong Tolong....

Perhaps i need to call iris soon... hehehe...

    For Mummy
1    Nursing bra
2    clip
3    Breast pad
4    sarong
5    nursing tea
6    sanitary pad
7    disposable underwear
8    dry powder shampoo
9    Nipple cream
 

    For Baby
    Bed
1    baby cot
2    playpen
3    nursing pillow
4    bedding
   
    Hygiene & Health care
1    thermometer
2    nasal aspirator
3    nail clipper
   
    Milk
1    Sterilizer
2    storage bottle
3    breast pump
4    milk bottle
5    bottle washer & sponge
6    cooler & bottle bag
7    pacifiers
   
    shower & cream
1    bathing tub
2    head to toe cleanser
3    baby cream
4    nappy rash cream
   
    wears
1    nappy
2    fastener
3    diaper
4    Bb mitten n botties
5    stocking
6    swaddle blanket

    Travel
1    car seat / carrier
2    stroller
3    baby sling
4    baby carrier

i Hate brushing teeth now...

I hate brushing teeth nowadays...

the toothbrush go into my moth in white (with toothpaste) and came out
red (with blood).....

and i can feel that the gum is swollen and really uncomfortable..

what can i do about it?

I ask my gynae if i am losing too much calcium and he said it is not
because of that...

bleeding is purely because of swollen gum...

and he advice me to see dentist instead!!

Is that true??

I need advice......

or should i change my toothpaste?

A date with mummy...

Daddy was sleeping soundly...

Think left think right, mummy decided to bring you out for a walk...
hehehe...

tokk daddy's car key, mummy bring you to the gynae...

fortunately, it was raya cum school holiday.. the clinic was not crowded
as normal weekend...

mummy put on weight by 2.5kg compared to last check up.. good good...
means that you are growing as well.. =)

doctor was doing ultrasound on my mummy's tummy... where you stay in
currently..

mummy see you with ur heart beating.. so sweet of you.. and mummy can
see u growing bigger... so glad...

doctor says you are growing, even you are petite now, so not too worry... =)

you are now 500g, at 5 months big...

oh oh.. doctor also manage to show mummy your little chick chick (小鸡
鸡) le..

daddy must be very happy..

here, Benjamin Lee, stay safe & healthy inside mummy tummy until you are
mature to come to the world..

mummy loves you.. the sleeping daddy loves you too...

<<daddy's hobby === eat, sleep, watch movie, play games>> do get used to
it..... @.@

Baby loves papa

I cannot imagine how the baby (even inside the tummy!!) can react to
my feelings.....

yesterday alvin was back home late. i tried to call him but he did not
answer the call.

so i become very nervous and started to get worry...

and the little one also kei po kei po join in the "kan-jiong-ness....

kicking here and there.. like instructing me: "hey! look for daddy! i
want daddy!"

until alvin return calls, the little one still non stop kicking...

"hey, don forget me! i want to talk to daddy too! i miss daddy too!"

sigh... very troublesome father & baby...

i have to entertain both... i become the messenger in between pulak~~~~~~

I was very tired and need to sleep....

and the little one just cant stop kicking.......

"hey, i have not talk enough! call daddy! i wanna talk to daddy...."

sorry darling.. mummy need to sleep....

muahahhaha...

Official launching of Tsubame Website

I am seriously impressed.

Now i really believe that, one does not need to be good in academic results to prove to others that you are capable.

My brother, booby ang who does not even have a degree certificate... he build up his own brand..

and indeed, it is seriously impressive.

I think he put a lot of effort in this business. and i am extremely proud of him.

Tsubame products.. weird combination actually --- bird nest, bird nest mask, lip gloss, facial product etc....

I have to admit that i am in love with the bird nest mask.. the moisturizing effect is awesome!

and the lip gloss is moisturizing yet not sticky... well, at least your partner will not complain.. 粘粘的... =)

Please take a look and give your support...

http://www.tsubamecorp.com

Terrible Horrible Home sick...

yesterday 26 August was my favorite uncle, wee sheng's birthday.

Looking at how his mum & his family celebrated his birthday... so envy..

argh... i really miss home..

I have to admit that i am blessed to have relatives in Singapore while i
am working here alone.. they do take good care of me..

No complaints.. really..

But after all, I still feel the horrible lonely at the late night,
before i go to bed... sigh...

i miss klang, i miss my family... i miss my friends.. and i miss alvin..

i miss the time that i can chit chat with esther before i go to bed...
even she fail to talk to me most of the time... she sleep super fast!
she can sleep once her body touch the bed!

i miss the moment that i can sleep on my parents bed... hugs them & feel
the pampered love from them...

i miss home.....

Tequila Shot!!!

Gosh,

Suddenly I miss the tequila shots so much...

it has really been ages that i last had it...

argh...

Do i deserve to have 1-2 shots during chinese new year 2011?

Can i have that as my new year wish?

Appointment with darling baby on 22 August 2010

Darling, you are in 20 weeks already...

daddy and mummy had an appointment with the gynae to meet up with you
again on last Sunday..

daddy was so excited as we will get to know your gender supposedly on
last Sunday.. mummy was not so eager to know your gender.. I just wanna
know that you are a healthy baby...

However, the naughty you.. u hide your "private part" with your leg,
intentionally want to keep your little secret to yourself..

hahahhaha...

mummy is glad to know that you are healthy.. but can see that your daddy
was a bit disappointed... hahaha..

Daddy and mummy want you to know that we are not particular on your
gender.. We just want to know so that we can fit your name, darling..
hahhahaha.. we cannot be calling baby and baby and baby all the time..
hahaha

Daddy has fixed up your name though, back to years ago.. hahhahahha.. we
will announce to you once you expose your gender to us.. as an exchange
gift.. haha..

darling, daddy and mummy hope that you will be happy and healthy baby..
no matter what happen, daddy and mummy love you.

Me & Alvin's Solemnization Ceremony in Yio Chu Kang CC on 21 August 2010

Alvin was surprise with the ambiance in the solemnization room. I am glad that he likes it. All efforts worth!!

Thanks DH for the supports! Love ya!

Must watch!!!!

Gosh! I must watch this!

The expendables!

Friends, please support me in facebook!!!

I MUST watch this!!!

My new crocs shoe!!!

I was suppose to be on leave today...

Me and Alvin went to Ministry of National Development (MND Building) for verification and marriage certificate this morning....

while waiting for our turn, we were both so nervous and i asked alvin if he sincerely wanna marry me.. hahahhaha... at the end he throw the question to me. which i din answer.. hahhaha.. erm.. no comment no comment...

after the "formal procedure", alvin gotto rush back to JB for tender interview.. so i go for shopping~~~ walked around in junction 8, surprisingly I found CROCS!!! hurray!!!

I bought 2 pairs of CROCS! happie happie~~~

Registry of Marriage

I am "proudly" announce that me and alvin are going to register as legal
husband and wife this Saturday!! 21 August 2010!!

That is my sweet mei mei, esther's birthday as well...

yeah yeah... by saying this, IT DOES mean that i am a 未婚妈妈..
muahhahahha... well, i am a modern woman... u guys knew that...

The ceremony will be "grandly" organized in Yio Chu Kang Community Club,
Singapore..

Why I choose there? Hm... Look at the pic!! Isn't it nice place to have
my ROM???? hahhahaha...

It is not free! I have paid S$100 for the 30 min. ceremony! and this
exclude the ang pow to the solemniser!

Will keep you update on the progress, hopefully everything goes on
smoothly...

till then, just hope that my tummy slow down the rate of growing for
this week... so that I can still fit in to the simple white dress that i
have just bought from MNG last month!

=)

Solemnization Vow

I was given 3 options for the ROM (Registry of Marriage) by the Solemnization party...

Option 1
In token and pledge, of our constant faith,
And abiding love, with this ring,
I marry you.

Option 2
In sickness, I will nurse you to health,
In health, I will nurture you.
In sadness I will bring you joy.
In happiness, I will share it with you.
In poverty, I will make our love rich.
In wealth, our love will not grow poor.
When you need encouragement, it will be from me.
When you need a helping hand, it will be mine.

With this ring as a token, I now marry you.

Option 3
I vow to always keep my love, as pure as it is today.
In your laughter, and your tears, in your sickness, and your health.
In your comfort, and your fears, in your poverty and your wealth.
I promise to be true to you, I promise to cherish you.

I give this ring, as a token, I now marry you.


I laugh and laugh over the 2nd option.... muahhahaha...
is like...
In sickness, I will nurse you to hell,
In health, I will torture you....
......
I told Alvin that i will no matter what not to choose this.. otherwise i will laugh during the solemnization... hahhahaha...

So, very rarely, we both have the same decision... to take Option 1 as our vow....
hahahhaha....

Craving on Durian Mooncake...

The mid-Autumn festival is near. Actually I normally know it as the
Mooncake festival la....

Suddenly this morning i have the craving for durian mooncake... i bought
one very very awesome durian mooncake in Singapore 2 years ago...

but i couldn't remember what brand is it...

Search online but fail to find any information.. anyway, i am not so
good in website thing... hahhaa...

asked a brilliant "live information counter"... (sorry iris, but are are
the best information counter!!!)

and iris manage to help me to get the information!!

the durian mooncake is from Home's Favorite!!! the webpage:-
http://www.homesfavourite.com/promotions.htm

I called up to the shop and they say they only start selling on 20
August 2010!!!!!

i must buy! i must buy!!! dying for the durian mooncake!!!

Our First Quarrel after the wedding

宝贝， 昨晚爸爸和妈妈吵架了。。

因为妈妈很想回外婆家坐月。。 可是爸爸就是不了解妈妈的心情。。

宝贝， 爸爸妈妈吵架， 不是因为我们不相爱。。 你可以放一百个心。。 我们吵
架， 是因为我们都很想为你争取最好的！！

宝贝， 爸爸妈妈都很爱你。。

或许爸爸都不知道。。 妈妈已经可以感觉到你的胎动了！！

这对妈妈而言， 是难以形容的感动的幸福。。

宝贝， 因为你， 妈妈的世界变得精彩。。

不过， 妈妈吃的食物不多， 妈妈很抱歉， 希望没有妨碍到你的成长。。

就好象， 妈妈常讲的， 妈妈什么都不求， 但希望你健康成长。。

Testing testing to upload from email

This is a test blog that I tried to upload from my email.

Thanks Thiam Hai for teaching me... hahhaha

However, hai hai, i am not so dump to let you know my secret password...
muahhahhaha...

this is good.. then i can upload my blog whenever i feel bored in work..
hahhaha

小小的心跳。。

昨晚回到凯威的家，已经晚上十点了。。

累得半命。。 躺在床上，把手放在已经突起的肚子， 累得想睡觉了。。

突然，手掌隐约感觉到宝宝的心跳。。 以为自己想太多了。。 赶紧叫凯威过来一起感受。。

他把手放在我的肚子上，我问他，感觉到什么了吗？ “宝宝的心跳！！“他说。。

好兴奋！！ 原来不是我想太多了！真的是宝宝的心跳！！

我的宝贝，原来我可以感觉到你的心跳。。

我的宝贝，你在妈妈的肚子里还好吗？爸爸妈妈都爱你。。 爸爸很努力地，每天都想个笑话给你和妈妈听。。

宝宝，你要加油，好好的，健康地成长。。

Surprise Visit from Alvin!!

29 July 2010, Thursday

Dear hubby surprise me by calling me at 6.50pm and telling me that he is on the way to Singapore to have dinner with me.. =) told me that he will be arrive my uncle's place at 7.30pm but finally arrived at 8pm.. As usual, my hubby is never punctual... =P

We went to a small restaurant named Liquid Kitchen with David & Michelle (Alvin's brother & his gf).. Order quite a lot of nice yummy snacks & main course.. Unfortunately i din bring my camera.. manage to get 2 pictures from the webpage :P

the hot & spicy drumlets

chicken quesadilla

Alvin took a tired and long journey back to JB after the dinner and he finally reached home at 12am. Poor him... but i was totally satisfied with the surprise visit.. Well, hope that he can do it more often in future.. hehe....

My weddinfg album..

29 July 2010, Thursday

Almost forgotten to share my wedding album.. that i took about 1.5 months ago... haha...