My name is Handsome Lee

Today count the 6th months of Charles attending Heguru class. I see his improvement in speech, education and confidence since he attended the class. Today for the first time, he is willing to introduce himself at the beginning of the class (common practice in the class).. 

Teacher : what's your name?

Charles & teacher : my name is...

(At the same time)

Teacher : Charles Lee 

Charles : handsome lee 

(Teacher got stunt a bit)

Teacher : say it again please

Charles (loudly) : my name is Handsome Lee!!

Applause!!! 

Good job my handsome!!

My super cheeky son, Charles

He is cheeky, he is intelligent;

He is naughty, he is kind;

He is selfish (he doesn't share his toy), but he is soft hearted (he will provide alternative to siblings to ensure everyone has a toy);

He would cry for little tiny matter, but he smile like a shinny sun;

He make me crazy, and he make he laugh;

He is really the one that change me.. 

I learn to me patience, I learn to listen, I learn to think /feel at others position, I learn to love unconditionally..

There are still very much to learn to tackle with this small young man..

I believe he will be a special person one day.. He is more than what others says about him now..

My little young man, Charles lee, mummy will love u to the moon and back to the earth..

Charles's best friend - qiao en

Charles has got a new best friend this year back to klang for cny, besides yi en & yi xing.. The pretty gal is qiao en, his little cousins, who is few months younger than him.. 

She has been hugging Charles and holding him all the time and Charles did not reject.. The playboy gene is in him.. Hahaha..

Charles sleep without pacifier!!

After a long 21 months and 24 days, Charles finally sleep without pacifier!! And he also did not ask for it!!

I couldn't express how happy I am.. Haha.. Let's observe for another 2 days. The day of weaning pacifier is getting near.. Hehe

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Charles surprise with new words today.. While I was driving him to the bb sitter house，he keep saying "你看"

A new word a day keep my days so bright and happy..

Charles new word

Today Charles new word is "open". Sometimes he say "oh no".. and I will laugh my lung out when he say that....Charles, mummy love u forever. No matter if u are good in speech, ur are good in recognizing the animals,etc etc..

Mummy just love u the way u are..

Hello..

Charles today's new word is hello..

While I am posting this blog, he said "no more" and "oh no".. Hahaha..

Benjamin & Charles

Charles started to communicate

Charles is not a quick learner in speech compare to Benji. Sometimes when he wanted to express something but he couldn't he get frustrated and cry. 

Recently he started to speak some words other than papa, mammy, kor kor... He will tell me 晒晒，烧烧，car, 要，nen nen, 桶桶，and some other little things.. Oh, even the 妹妹.. (^.^)

I am touched when he speak to me.. Is bo doubt a big achievement.. Charles is a boy active and intelligent in his move and action.. He can do many things out of expectation.. He run fast even he is so petite.. Super fast... -.-|| 

I am glad that he can started to communicate with me and make my guardian to him easier that I will know what he wants thru his words.. 

Charles, mummy hope u grow healthy and happy.. Love u always..

A day in River Safari

It's school holiday and we bring the children to Singapore River Safari last Sunday. 

It's Charles first trip to Safari, and he is very excited. 

Benji was upset at the end of the trip cause he missed out the tiger fish stop. We promised to come again.. Daddy and mummy planned to bring them come again on Tuesday, the public holiday again!!

Here's the photo of the two young boy enjoying their snack at the safari.

Charles loves Kor Kor's Thomas bag

Is it time to send Charles to school?

Charles lee, week 8

Charles Lee

welcome Charles (^.^)

slightly deviate from the original plan, me and alvin came in singapore on 18 Dec evening. initially i planned to come earlier and stay in my uncle's place.. but i couldn't bear to leave benji.. this is the first time that i am going to be away from him for so many days...

we arrive singapore on 18 Dec late evening.. we went for a dinner, somewhere near my uncle's house.. then went back to rest.. i was very excited and nervous.. wake up at 3am without alarm and couldn't fall sleep again..

we arrived at hospital at about 445am. settle the admission, the nurse bring us and prepared me for the cesarean. i waited till 630am before i was directed to the operation room. i was very nervous due to the past epidural experience.. it wasn't painful, it's just that i am not comfortable having people doing things at my back... and i totally have no control of it.. another thing that i was nervous about is the stitching process after baby is out from my tummy. i dislike the feeling that i have no control over things happening on me and there is nothing that i can do about it.

the operation started at 710am (when the doctor first cut on me). alvin walked in. i was completely glad to see him. i mean, at that time. i know i may not have courage to do all these all by myself without him. and throughout the whole pregnancy, this is the 1st time that i feel he really standby me and supported me. alvin knew my fear, he comfort me by touching my forehead.. his touches really calm me down.

726am, that's the time i first hear Charles scream.. the cries melted my heart... just like 2 years back when benji came to my life.. the nurse bring charles to me, allow me to carry him awhile.. i could feel his soft cheek when i kissed him. he is a beautiful and healthy baby... (^_^)

alvin left with charles to witness the nurses clean him up and register him. i am alone again. i try to control my mind so that i wont be beaten up by the fear of "stitching process". luckily my doctor really do it real fast.. the whole process was completed by 810am.

when i was sent back to my room, alvin waited there. honestly, i have to say... his appearance does comfort me a lot. i may really having difficulty to do this on my own.. >.<